Do you need help with
adequate knowledge on how the ways you can comfort and make your woman feel
better when she is on her period? Most men do. In this post, i will be giving
out some quick guide you can easily follow. Read on!
The way your
girlfriend can transform either into a godzilla or a lost puppy when on her
period. Even if you are the most patient boyfriend ever, you may just want to
hide when Aunt flow (her monthly flow) visits, but that should not really be
the best step to take. No matter how irritated your spouse is, she simply needs
you around her. Instead of panicking when she is on her period, show her that
you care enough and try your best to comfort her. Here are tips on how you can
make her feel better. Here are 12 tried and tested tips you can offer a lady to
alleviate her menstrual pain.
1. Do not blame anything on her period
You may be right
about her crankiness, terrible mood swings and bad mood being caused to her
period, but NEVER say that out loud! Be sensitive. This is a biological process
which affects her behaviour, and pointing out her body as the troublemaker will
only make things worse! You will end up making her feel blamed for hormonal
upheaval.
2. Do not sit down to discuss menstruation
Dear men, a woman
perfectly knows what is going on with her body. So do not make the mistake of
advising her about her condition and behaviour unless you are a doctor. Once
she starts explaining intricate details about what is going on down there, you
will be the one cringing. So, it is best to avoid the topic altogether.
3. Avoid telling her anything that can irritate her
Your spouse may
usually be a rational and easygoing person, but when she is on her period, she
may not respond with the same casualness as on a regular day. So before you
tell her about your honest opinion on one of her all time favourite movies or
casually mention an out of town trip with just the guys, consider telling her
about it when she is no longer as moody. Anything that might suggest the
slightest hint of annoyance can turn into full-blown anger when she is already dealing
with hormones. Hence, it is best to keep the conversation light and soothing,
at least until she is done with her period. Did you know periods could be as
painful as heart attacks?
4. Answer questions with care
If she is bombarding
you with irrational questions which have no definitive answer, think twice
before responding, as her reaction may range from a barrage of angry words to
even break up threats. Think to yourself, is now a good time to be honest or
shall I try to give her the answer she wants? Your chances of surviving the day
without conflict will be higher if you let her hear what she wants to hear.
5. Be as patient as you can possibly be
Be compassionate
towards her feelings. This state is temporary and she is going to be back to
her great self in a few days. When those unending word-battles ensue, simply
keep in mind that you are the one she is venting out everything to because you
are her own and she feels totally at home with you. Muster up all your patience
for those days of the month, and try to be some extra nice if possible.
6. Prepare food for her
Losing blood and
feeling bloated can be pretty exhausting. But it can drain so much of a woman’s
energy that she will be too tired to prepare a meal. One of the best things you
can do for her is prepare her favorite food and keep her hydrated. Sometimes
women on their period may start to have unusual cravings. Ask her what she would
like and get it for her. It will not only make her feel special, but also
comfort her thoroughly.
7. Watch a movie with her
Those period cramps
are painful as hell. To distract her from the discomfort, spend some quality
time together. Watch her favourite movie and do not forget the popcorn! Just to
be on the safe side, avoid anything too tragic or heavily emotional.
8. Don't act disgusted
Show her that you are
not grossed out by the very thought of her menstrual cycle even if you don't
feel comfortable with it at first. If she tries to talk to you about it, do not
make faces or say "go talk to one of your girlfriends". This will just
make her feel like you do not care. Another part of this step is to be willing
to run errands for her. Go get her the supplies she is out of, (thinking of
sanitary items as "girl stuff" is immature and unhelpful) and pick
her up some chocolate or her favorite magazine while you are at it! It will
make her feel like you really care.
9. Make her feel loved and appreciated
Let her know how
happy you are to have her in your life. Tell her she is a great friend,
girlfriend, or wife. If she is at work or away from you, call her cellphone,
work phone or email them and tell her how beautiful, sweet and all-round
awesome she is. It is not even describable how nice it is for a person to do
this. Do not go over the top her if she is snappy and irritable from the mood
swings. Here are expert tips to exercise during that time of the month.
10. Help her out with things
If she has any little
chores or errands to do, help her out. Take the stress off of her by doing the
dishes or taking her things down to the laundry. This will help lift some
weight from her shoulders and give her time to relax. Keep in mind she may not
just have little or chores. Women who work for a living and run a family of
kids and pets and everything else have periods too and HAVE to cope.
11. Be considerate and comforting
Do NOT coerce her
into getting intimate if you notice even the slightest hint of discomfort. This
will not only irritate and upset her, but also showcase you as a selfish
individual. Be considerate and respect her feelings. Have her sit down and give
her a massage or give her a warm hug. Even a comforting arm rub might make her
feel better and will at least show you care.
12. Be there for her
Hold her when she
wants to lean on you. Simply letting her sleep in your arms can make her feel
comfortable. Just being there and being sweet makes anyone feel better. Make
her realize that you are there for her through thick and thin. Engage in some
foreplay to ease her up only if she is comfortable with it. But if she wants
some space and wants to be left alone, give her the privilege.
When she is on her
period, just keep in mind that this would only last for a couple of days.
During those couple of days, treat her like a queen and try to do that with a
smile on your face. She will definitely remember how nice you were to her
during those days, and that’s always a plus in any relationship. Feel free to
share this information to your family and loved ones. Thanks for reading!
12 Ways A Man Can Comfort His Spouse During Her Period
Reviewed by Chibuzor Aguwa
on
Sunday, June 25, 2017
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